Performing Cunnilingus: A First Timer’s Manual

by on January 17, 2010

Performing Cunnilingus: A First Timer’s ManualSo you have finally snagged the girl of your dreams and the time to get under the sheets is drawing nearer and nearer. Both of you will be looking forward to such a sexy time with one another, of course – but if you are new at this, looking up some tips on performing cunnilingus might amp up your sexy man meter. It takes more than just simple licks here and there to get a woman’s juices flowing, and if you want to get drenched you would best read up and get the cunnilingus education you need!

Cunnilingus is basically arousing a woman through her vagina using your tongue. While tongues are different across all men, the main thing is to either keep a steady rhythm or mix things up every now and then. This will all depend on the girl, so it is very important to get into what you are doing while still paying attention to her reactions on you.

There are basic clues you can watch out for to determine if you are doing it right: the hair grab, the moans, and the hip gyration and reverberation. Most women, when they like what you are doing to them as you go down on them, will have the tendency to grab on to your hair when they sense a deep and sexy feeling with the way you are moving your tongue around. Some will also consciously or unconsciously start to gyrate their hips around your head in a rhythmic or even desperate manner. Yet others will resort to moaning and groaning, as if they were experiencing both pleasure and pain at the same time. Whether your woman does one of these things or all three. Be very alert if any will arise at any given time during cunnilingus. This is the signal that you are keeping things in a steady and sexy manner.

Also, performing cunnilingus should require a bit of visualization to lessen the awkwardness of the situation (since some will feel a bit awkward if it is their first time). If you do not know how to get things going, it is always best to resort to channeling your food-licking experiences and pretend that your girl’s vagina is it. You could imagine yourself licking an ice cream on a hot sunny day, so there could be a lot of swirling action around. You might even pretend to be rolling around a piece of hard candy across your tongue, and this same movement could be applied as you go down on your woman.

The bottom line is cunnilingus is an act that is not only enjoyable for the person receiving it but also the person who is performing it. A woman’s private area is indeed a very desirable thing to see and touch, so you should consider yourself lucky to be allowed in such an area. Approach your task with gusto as if it will be the one and only time you get to do it, and the sense of desperation attached to such a visualization will definitely leave her wanting for more.

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