How to Eat a Girl Out: Dirty Talk
Tuesday, October 30th, 2007Sex is much better when you incorporate dirty talk into it.
Once you’re used to talink dirty to your partner and have her talking dirty back, you’ll marvel that you were ever silent during sex.
Even when you’re not talking dirty, it is important that you be vocal during sex. Think about it, what gives you more sexual pleasure: a girl who moans and screams in pleasure as you fuck her, or a girl who is silent and still as a corpse?
Don’t be afraid to let out passionate noises in bed. Remove your inhibitions — you will find that once you do, you’ll naturally want to moan when you enter her, and let out a roar when you reach orgasm.
Once you’re comfortable making passionate noises, you should start talking dirty. The tonality that you use when you’re talking dirty is very important. It should be deep and dominant, like the voice of a hypnotists; it should be passionate, but controlled.
Train yourself to maintain control of your voice, even at high levels of arousal. Your voice should also be devoid of all nervousness and uncertainty. A dominant male does not talk with hesitation, nor does he look for approval before continuing his dirty talk. He just does it.
The best time to talk dirty is when she is very aroused. Ideally, this will be when you are having sex with her. The very pleasure that she is when you are giving her so much pleasure that she is helpless to make any response. When you have mastered the art of dirty talk, you will be able to fill hear ear with a controlled, hypnotic stream of erotic language even while you’re railing the shit out of her with everything you have.
The first few times you have sex with a new woman, start calling her a dirty little girl. Tell her how wet her pussy is, and how good it feels to be fucking her. After she’s become somewhat comfortable with you, start talking dirty more when she’s very aroused.
There are five main themes that you should concentrate your dirty talk around.
Some of the best dirty talk comes from a real understanding of female sexuality. Women go to their jobs and look proper all day, pretending that they’re thinking about platonic things. Even when guys approach them, women have to pretend that they’re not interested in sex because of social conditioning. This is torture for them, because women are even more sexually obsessed than men. Not only do they think about sex more, but the thought are more intense because they try to repress them. However, hardly any men have the insight to see that beneath their platonic facades, all women crave sex.
When she’s very aroused, tell her that you know how much she thinks about sex. Say that she pretends she doesn’t want to get fucked all day, but you knwo what a slut she is on the inside. Tell her you know that she thinks about your inside her. Tell her how wet she is right now, she’s dripping all over your cock.
Personalizing your dirty talk like this will make it even better. Whenever you can, you should always call her YOUR slut or YOUR whore, rather than just calling her whore or slut.
This has a threefold effect — she feels more dominated, the motif of being yours adds to the emotions that she feels, insecurities that may be triggered by your talking dirty to her like this will be reduced by personalizing your drity talk; because she is yours, she doesn’t have to worry as much about being one of those guys that is so screwed up by social programming that he is secretly disgused by women who respond to dirty talk.
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It’s your choice…
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